Are you giving more than what you are getting?
Do you tend to serve more than to be served?
If you answer “Yes” to both questions, you are on the right track (at least partially). If your answers are “No,” you might want to reevaluate yourself.
“The world’s favorite verb is ‘get.’ The verb of the Christian is ‘give.’ Self-interest is basic modern society. But in God’s kingdom self-interest is not basic—selflessness is.” Billy Graham
For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many. Mark 10:45